Iā€™m sorry!

I’ve gotten out of the habit of posting, I noticed I lost some followers, no biggie.

Things have been pretty quiet on the home front being that I’m building a house an all. I am on the road all the time, when I’m not on the road I’m working on the house. Goddess must think I need my rest so she hasn’t been pushing any activities. Not to say we don’t still do things but we’ve slowed waaaaaay down.

Anyways hang in there everyone, I might have something interesting to post about toward the end of the month. šŸ˜‰

PetHubby

Getting back to normal!

First off sorry everyone, I been absent a few weeks for some family time and now that it’s over Goddess and I are getting back into our regular routine.

I’ll try to get back into the habit of posting on the regular again, I’ve just been so busy with building a house and family stuff that not much has been going on to be honest.

PetHubby

When you think it’s been long enough…

I had a “damnit” moment last night.Ā  I took a quick shower while Goddess was getting ready for bed, and when I finished showering, I joined her. I’m still not physically caged yet, because i’m still giving my piercing time to toughen back up. The good news is it no longer smarts when the piercing moves, but I wanna give it a day or two more before I go back in the cage.

Anyways, I was laying there winding down for the night, and I got curious and asked myself out loud, I wonder how many days it’s been.

Checked my handy little app and sure enough it’d only been 3 days. >.<

Goddess laughed and said yep, Not long enough.

Point is, When you think it’s been long enough, It’s just getting started.

pethubby

Random Morning Musings

So, i’m not really sure what i’m going to write today, I just thought that I should.

Sometimes, it’s really frustrating to have the particular set of kinks that I do. Not only for me, but for Goddess as well. Goddess is best described as a full blown Lesbian, I just happen to be the exception to her orientation. So of course, this makes finding a Bull extremely difficult.

Oh the fuckery I could tell you all about trying to find one… So far, 99% of the messages have been from gross, entitled, chauvinistic wannabe dominant assholes. Ok we get it, you got a big dick, does that mean you are incapable of operating your brain at the same time? In all of Goddesses ads, she states that SHE is the dominant one, and won’t submit to anyone. She gets messages all the time not even asking, more like telling, her what they want to do. Instant no, and and instant block. It’s not sexy to assume you have consent, or to message vulgar shit when you haven’t even gotten to know her.

Then you have to consider, since Goddess isn’t really into guys, she has a specific look she’s trying to go for.

  • 25-39 age bracket.
  • Piercings and Tattoos
  • Nerdy
  • Bearded and or look like a biker or a viking (hehe)
  • And be a courteous gentleman capable of actually holding a conversation.

She’s met a few that fit all but the last criteria, and it’s fucking frustrating. They start out promising, but become a flake, don’t want to even attempt to get to know her, or after a few messages they start doing nasty talk. As she’s stated that she can’t just have sex with random strangers. She wants a lasting friendship, with benefits. Don’t get us wrong, nasty talk is fine, once you get to know her, but for fucks sake guys, use your brain! If she can’t even have a normal conversation with you, what makes you think she wants to fuck you?

Anyways, enough about that.

Been trying to let my piercing toughen up, for the last couple days of my lockup the underside was getting tender, I asked Goddess if I could be out for a couple of days to let it heal back up, she was nice and let me. When i’m not locked, nothing changes, I still follow all the same rules, I still sit down to use the restroom, I don’t touch myself, for all intents and purposes, I am “Always” locked up. It’s just how I choose to be. Technically I wouldn’t even need a device, but Goddess needs a physical reminder that i’m denied, because without the device she’s tempted too much herself to take advantage of her unlocked toy.

Well, In closing, If your a NICE bull, capable of having a normal conversation, possibly even becoming friends, have a face picture, and are local to us or willing to travel to us, and want some good kinky fun, send Goddess a message. Before you do, Take a peek at the following fetlife links to see if you’re a good fit.

pethubby

Long week!

So I know it’s been a while since i’ve blogged… My apologies to my 9 faithful readers (followers).

Let’s see… What’s gone on?

Been working on the house. Building one that is. Poured concrete last weekend. Ordered block, won’t be delivered until next weekend.

Went on a work trip, co-driver hit a deer. Was a pretty rude awakening lol.

Last Wednesday, after I got back from a trip, Goddess decided she had a treat for me. When I got home, she ordered me to strip, and lay on the bed. She blindfolded me and after which she removed my cage. I had been a full week without any unauthorized orgasms and have been in chastity for double that now, so you can imagine that I was pretty sensitive and had a hair trigger. She only had intentions to tease me enough to get me super horny, then had a special treat for me, more on that later. So she kind of got distracted. She ended up teasing me so much and got so horny herself that she accidentally ended up making me cum. Another 7 days punishment time… I have a feeling i’ll never have a free orgasm again, only unauthorized and ruined ones šŸ˜‰ I think i’m ok with that… for now anyway haha.

So, after which, she had me sit up, still blindfolded and lead me into the shower. She had me get down on my knees (awkwardly I complied, we figured out next time I’ll just sit cross legged because our shower is tiny) and she hovered over my face. Well, you can imagine what she WANTED to do, but her bladder wouldn’t listen lol. Oh well, for me, the thought is what counts. It’ll be the first time it’s ever happened, and I hope for a second attempt soon. So far, that’s been all this weeks sexy stuff.

Onto the other part. As part of our routine maitenence, Goddess removed my cage tonight for cleaning, and when I went to put my circular barbell in, it hurt like a bitch. I knew I had to take my cage off for healing, as my piercing hole is quite tender on the underside. I know these things happen, but I can’t wait for the time when I can just wear the Contender long term.

So that’s about all for now, thanks for reading!

 

Busy Busy!

Hey everyone! I haven’t had much to write about as of late, as i’ve been extremely busy with non-kink related life.

I finally got what I feel like is going to be the perfect fit for my Contender, I had to order a new base ring with a slightly larger gap.

So now the specs of my cage are:

  • Contender with PA upgrade
  • The length of the PA hook is long enough to touch the underside of the top horizontal bar.
  • Cage Ring (inner diameter): 1 1/4 inch (32mm)
  • Flaccid Length: 2 inches (51 mm) +/- 1/16″ due to new gap.
  • Lock Style: Padlock Hole in Lock Sleeve
  • Prince Albert Upgrade: 4 Gauge – 3/16″ – 5mm
  • Piercing Setback: 1/2″
  • Gap: 7/16″
  • Base Ring: 1 3/4″ (44mm) – Round

My balls finally sit even inside the base ring, previously with the last ring, after the cage portion was locked on, It would cause one of my balls to sit too high and tight, eventually causing pain and rubbing.

You ever put a new chastity on and instantly just KNOW you’ve got the right fit? That’s how it is now… I am loving the way it feels. Goddess and I are going to give it a test run for a week and see how it feels.

As far as future release date? Well, I’m sure there was one incident that I didn’t blog about, but it earned me yet another week of lockup time. As of this entry, I’ve been in chastity for 13 days, my last orgasm (unauthorized) was 6 days ago, and I don’t have the chance to earn a normal authorized orgasm for another 15 days. (June 24, 2018)

Well, that’s all for now! Small hint to my readers, I’m more likely to blog more if I get more interaction. Post up some comments, let me know what you think!

pethubby

T&D and Spontaneity

Saturday night, I was rewarded with a blowjob tease and denial… šŸ˜€

I’m currently not caged at the moment, balls are healing up, I think I either need more gap or a slightly larger base ring. I was feeling frisky Sunday and had Goddess sit on my lap while we were netflixing. I was kissin on her, grabbing her neck like she likes, breathing softly in her ear while kissing it…. Needless to say she grabbed a condom. Off to the bed! We had sex for almost an hour and I struggled to keep from having an orgasm, but… At the end while she was having a really big orgasm… I was getting close again and I pulled out real fast… (condom of course, no worries there) And her last moan was so hot that I still came despite halting stimulation.Ā  Ya’ll know an orgasm without permission adds 7 days…. so now it’s 21 days until i’m allowed to have a proper orgasm and enjoy it :-p

Did a lot of physical labor yesterday after that, sore all over today.

Thanks for stoppin in šŸ™‚

pethubby